There is a simple thing that guys may do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uneasy in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the situation, lower the gradient.
How do you define gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your first step, it will be difficult to accomplish, and you will fail. If you continue trying it over and over you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not try anymore.
If you try to jump up five or six steps on your initial try, it will also be frightening -- not necessarily impossible but scary. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .
The best tactic is to take the first step and then progress one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a ladder.
When I was a young man I would observe a girl I was attracted to and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was jumping up way too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The first step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or make a comment about something that she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her before you decide that you like her.
Obviously, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are good basics to begin with. If you use gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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